On the last post I promised to tell you about the pitfalls of my awakening, but I've decided to slip this post in first. There is so much comparison and 'woe is me' going on and I have the perfect cure! Lucy Sheridan has written one of the world's best books on comparison. She is the only comparison coach out there, and for those of you that can't afford to pay for coaching, no worries! You can purchase this book for a small sum.
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If you are always comparing your situation to others, and asking yourself why you don't have what they have...Honey that's a big red flag on your part. As the teacher used to say in class, "Worry about yourself!" We will never raise our vibe or do better for ourselves if that is our focus. I'm gonna put a little checklist below and if any of these sound like you, then get this book!
- Why does she get to go on vacation three times a year? I can't even afford one.
- He's so lucky to have a nice car. He has no idea how lucky he is.
- I want to start doing (insert thing here) in my life, but I don't feel I can or that I deserve it.
- I feel like an imposter doing (insert thing here).
- Why did Helen make 100k last year doing the same thing I did, and I only made 10k?
- I wish I could do (insert thing here).
- I love (insert thing here), but that's just a pipe dream. It's certainly not meant for me.
It's no lie that some have an easier time getting started due to their karmic situation, but honey you aren't going anywhere as long as you are looking at them and feeling sorry for yourself. Trust me, if you feel drawn to doing something, your spirit is calling you to do that thing, and a path will open up if you just make up your mind to walk on it. It won't always be easy. Nothing is easy. So if it's a handout you want, just keep your hand out, but I doubt anyone will put anything great in it. We sculpt our soul into something brilliant with the work!
Joy comes from within. We are all unique, and we have to embrace our own and learn to love ourselves.
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